Once you have decided to look for a new position, it can be exciting, maybe even a little scary. But rarely are people prepared for the longevity of the job search, especially in today’s economy. Some say that if you are searching on a daily basis, the job search will take at least 1 month for every $10,000 you want to earn. So if you want to earn $60,000, it could take 6 months for you to get hired.

This does not mean 6 months of looking and applying for the right position. It means 6 months of applying for positions aggressively, and 6 months of rejection. There are many frustrations that come along with rejection; I didn’t qualify for the role. I’m not worth it. Why am I even doing this? This kind of thinking can send someone on a nonstop trip to “negative” town. And there you will find self doubt and lack of confidence, which are two traits a job seeker should be without.

It is important to take this rejection and use it in a positive way so you don’t lose that drive and self confidence. One suggestion to help you stay positive through the long job search is to ask why you didn't get the job. Be sure to do this in a positive, non-threatening way. Rather than asking “WHY DIDN’T YOU HIRE ME???” ask “I’m always looking for feedback and ways I can enhance my skills. Was there a particular question I did not answer well or part of my experience you questioned?” The recruiter may not have a good answer, but it doesn't hurt to ask politely. It may be something you didn't even consider and that could help you in the future.

Another thing to consider is to try something different. If your search strategy isn't working, it may be time for a new approach. Where are you getting held up in your search? Do you get the interview but not the offer? It may be time to brush up on those interview skills. Do you submit tons of resumes and receive no calls? Perhaps your resume needs some work, or you are applying for jobs that are out of your league. You could also think about offering to work for a company for a few weeks as a volunteer to gain some experience. Join a new professional organization to boost your networking prospects. Take a class related to your career to enhance your skills.

You may feel rejected during the course of your search, but you can’t let it get you down and interrupt your search. Once you feel like a failure and stop applying, only one thing is certain: you won’t receive a job offer. With consistent diligence and confidence, you are sure to find something!