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Returning to College
By: Gwendolyn Price
Posted: Mar 2nd, 2009
So, you’ve decided to return to college to pursue your lifelong dream of obtaining a degree. Good for you! You plan to accomplish this while being a wife, mother and employee. You say to yourself “No problem I am woman, hear me roar!” Well realistically balancing school, work and family can be quite challenging. The primary source of stress for adult female students comes from the multiple roles they play in their daily lives.
However, you can do it, just garner some support from those around you. The best advice I can give is to make sure you discuss your decision to return to college with family members. The discussion should include your reasons and or motivation for returning to school. After all with a college education you could command a higher salary and access to more work opportunities in the future. Let your spouse and children know you will need their assistance and support in order to accomplish this goal. Chances are they will be more supportive if they feel they are vital to your success.
Now that everyone is on board with your plan, all you need is determination, organization and the commitment to succeed. I encourage all women to step out on faith and go for it!
5 Comments
jstpierre2 | May. 23, 2009 @ 1:26 PM
Rena C,
I am going to be doing the same thing you are doing once I get my Ass. degree but my husband is the one who is pushing me forward. I know what you mean with the balancing the family and school, it can be very hard I know. My husband is in the Army and I was going to school online and being mommy and daddy at the same time. It was very hard but the one thing that got me through it was I kept thing of my children. Would they think it is ok to start something and not finish it. So not only am I going to school to get a degree but to show my children it is never to late to go after your dreams.- Jenn S
kimblegf | Jun. 9, 2009 @ 4:50 PM
Just to let you know I faced similar circumstances while obtaining my degree. My family was on board until I was down to two classes to graduate or so I thought. In reflecting on those days I was so stressed out because I had things going on at work, home and school. Isn't that how life is though? Feast or famine. However, I think I approached it all wrong. I started spending all my free time on school and work issues ignoring my family responsibilities. I stop attending family functions, making excuses for my absence. On family trips I brought along books and laptop hoping to carve out time to complete some assignments. Believe me I know its difficult, but if you want to keep them in your corner, make sure you carve out time just for them. Give them all your attention! This is another reason I am 100% for online classes. You can be at home and accessible.
SherrieLee | Jun. 21, 2009 @ 7:21 AM
I am fairly new to this school and also a new parent. As soon as my little girl was born I felt that I needed to do something, I wanted her to have a better life than what I really can give her. My boyfriend is great he helps me all the time when I need t get my assignments done. At the same time though, he began working so it was a little harder to balance the houshold everyday chores, taking care of the little one and I began working wit Avon. I may have overloaded myself but I do seem t be doing well especaislly in school. I'm the happiest for the first time ebver in school only because of my grades. I never knew I could get good grades.
I did the same thing where my school took up all my free time. but i did somehow find a balance between things. I say i take about 2 hours a day for school, 2 hours a day for Avon, and then the rest of the day is doing the household chores and sending time with the family.
aflint10222 | Sep. 9, 2009 @ 11:12 AM
Well I am mom who has children who are pretty much on their own now and I am single, I want to spend time with family, however family have their own lives and things to do, which is why I decided to wait until they finish high school to pursue my lifelong dream of going to college to get my degree. It is very challenging for me my hope is that my grown up children will jump on the wagon and pursue a higher learning and education also. I hope to inspire all who read this blog you can make it, I have my associates degree and am now pursuing my BAA degree. I really don't feel that family is that much concerned with the time we spend together because my kids have their own lives in which they are living now. During our family gathering I feel out of place because so much space is in between us now. However I am educating myself to hopefully help them one day.
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Rena C | May. 21, 2009 @ 6:14 PM
I am about to receive my Assiciate degree in Business from AIU. I have to admit some of these classes I have struggled in and I'm not ashamed to say I will be happy when it's all over. Balancing family and school is harder then I thought it would be because moms have to be in so many places at once( I do anyway). My husband and kids were all for it at first but now they hate it because its seems to be taking "me" away from them.I am re-enrolled so a few weeks after I graduate, I start again. My husband is not happy about this. Well, I guess we will see what happens-Rena C